Jealousy is natural, but Neri Naig-Miranda isn’t really familiar with that feeling. For years, her husband, Parokya ni Edgar frontman Chito Miranda, has maintained a close friendship with actress Angel Locsin and model/entrepreneur Bubbles Paraiso.
Despite their closeness, Neri shared that she never resented it and that she respects the love they have for one another.
“Yung mga best friends ni Chito, never ako nakaramdam ng iba. Kapag magkakasama kasi sila para lang silang mga bata. Mahal nila ang isa’t isa at ayun naman dapat ang irespeto ko,” she wrote in a recent blog entry.
Chito, who just celebrated his 40th birthday, often shares photos of their bonding moments, which prompt many to ask Neri if she’s ever felt threatened or jealous of their closeness.
“Ang lagi kong sagot sa kanila, bakit ako magseselos? Eh mga kaibigan niya yun eh,” she went on. “Bago pa ako pumasok sa buhay ni Chito, mga kaibigan na nIya yun. Bakit ko pipigilang makipagkaibigan ang asawa ko sa kanila? Ano ang magagawa ko kung kagaganda at kasesexy ng mga kaibigan nya?”
Continuing, she shared how she’s never been the jealous type. In fact, in a previous blog entry, she opened up how some women would even try to flirt with Chito and cause a rift between them. Though it’s natural to be annoyed, Neri responds by simply ignoring them.
“Hindi pa rin kase maiwasan ng iba na magpacute kay Chito kahit may asawa’t anak na siya. Super nabawasan na nga eh,” she wrote.
When it comes to Chito’s close girl friends, however, she’s even open to her husband sleeping over at their place because she trusts them and knows that the respect is mutual.
“Kahit matulog pa si Chito sa bahay ng mga best friends nyang babae, panatag ako. Kase may tiwala ako sa asawa ko at may respeto rin ang mga kaibigan niyang mga babae sa akin,” she wrote.
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