5 reasons why couples argue during the holidays, and how they can be avoided

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It's a fact of life that all couples eventually fight. Though, the holidays really seem to make things worse, here's a list of the reasons why couples fight and how to avoid them.

For some strange reason, couples tend to have more arguments during the holidays. The holidays are supposed to be a time to be with your loved ones, and of course, no one wants to spend it arguing with their significant other.

Here are some of the top reasons why couples argue, and how you can avoid them:

1. The gift they gave you wasn't well thought out

Not everyone is an amazing gift giver, sometimes people are just really bad at giving gifts. It's one of the most common reasons why couples argue, and it's easy to understand why; getting a lazy gift from your partner such as a christmas card with a gift certificate doesn't feel good. More so if you took the time to give your partner an amazing and well thought out gift.

In order to avoid having this argument with your significant other, make sure to plan ahead and take some time to really think about what your partner wants. It doesn't have to be anything expensive like jewelry, it just has to be meaningful and special.

2. Overspending during the holidays

Like most money matters, couples argue a lot when someone overspends during the holidays. Whether it's for gifts or spending too much from their holiday bonus, it's a very common reason for couples to argue.

One way to avoid this is to sit down with your partner and plan a budget that will account for all your holiday expenses, and make sure to work within your budget! You should never spend beyond your means, even if you're expecting a holiday bonus. When it comes to gifts for your friends and family, it doesn't have to be anything fancy, but it has to be unique and something that they'll remember.

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