Ladies, I know it’s hard to accept that we don’t really “know it all” when it comes to what’s going through our guys’ minds when it comes to sex. If only there are actual sex tips for wives you can follow, right?
Even if you’ve had very revealing conversations about sex with your partner, there are some things he may not have said to you, but secretly hoped you knew.
Sex tips for wives: A must read
I’m sure you’re curious to know what these are… So, go ahead and click away!
They want you to be open to trying new things
You never know, once you get talking, he might be able to convince you to give his suggestions a go.
Do keep in mind that your man won’t (and shouldn’t!) want you to do something you don’t enjoy, so don’t feel bad about giving honest feedback about his suggestions — after giving them a go!
Well, men fantasize about things that are totally unrelated to bags and shoes. (But you already know that, right?)
Sex tips for wives: if your partner has a particular fantasy, hear him out without passing judgment. Better yet, while you are hearing him out, why not air out some of your deepest, darkest fantasies too?
If you are not a ‘dirty talk’ kind of girl though, don’t worry.
You can start by trying to communicate with your guy by either giving him directions on how to pleasure you or encouraging him when he’s doing something you love.
Men respond to visual stimulation, so they would naturally ‘respond’ to pornography. However, you would know your man has a problem if he relies only on porn to get turned on.
Think about it ladies, you don’t have to grin and nod through gritted teeth the next time your man does something you don’t like. So speak up! You don’t want a repeat performance of that, do you?
Of course, the same goes for something he does that you love! Go ahead and let him know about it!
A man’s opinion would be quite the opposite though. He regards sex as a pleasurable ‘stress-buster’, probably similar to how we think about that foot rub.
So try to make an effort for your man and have more time to make love to each other!
So, boost his ego and be forthcoming with the compliments. He will no doubt make further efforts to double your pleasure in bed.
Sex tips for wives: Ask him for directions, like where he wants to be touched. This will surely make your job a bit easier!
Women shouldn’t take this personally or think that there’s something wrong with their relationship.
Remember, we mentioned how guys think of sex as a relaxing stress-buster? Sometimes all they want to do is ravish their wives — and it has nothing to do with dominating them.
The fun need not end when he loses an erection
When your man fails to “rise to the occasion,” the last thing you should say is “Aawww, it’s alright babe, let’s do it again another time.”
Instead, don’t make a big deal about it. Men say such a reaction makes them feel ashamed and emasculated. When this happens, shift gears and try something else!
Article originally published on theAsianparent.com