open letter

One husband’s open letter to his wife this Valentine’s Day, on their 20th year together.

Minsan walang oras para makapag-usap ng maayos ang mag-asawa pero hindi dapat maging hadlang ito para maipakita kung paano magmahal ang isang asawa at maipakita ang kahalagahan ng isang pamilya.

An eye-opening moment and words of wisdom from a dad of older kids made this mom question an aspect of her parenting.

He doesn’t see the tears falling or hear your soft sigh, craving for his touch, wanting to be the former-you again. But I do. And here’s what I want you to know.

You are faced with a choice. I hope you choose to keep loving her and staying true to the vow you made, even when it hurts.

Mommy needs to learn to chill. Because at this age, you’re bound to make mistakes and test your limits - even if it means testing mine.

You might not be supportive of our marriage, but I want you to know that I stand firm with my decision to marry the woman I love.

There are so many questions I want to ask you. I want to be a good mom like you, but I'm not sure how I can do it without you here.

I wish that I could have had the chance to see you grow up, to see you take your first steps, and to hear you say "mama" and "dada."

"I know it's difficult for you to be so far from your family, but thank you for taking care of my beloved daughter as if she was your own."

I have full confidence you will be a good mom because you are the best person I know...