Once you have kids, it’s easy to be so caught up with the responsibilities of parenting that you forget to shower the mother of your children with the praise she deserves.
Your wife might be the most self-confident woman on the planet, but she will still need reassurance every now and then.
Here’s how to make her truly believe that she’s the most beautiful woman in your eyes.
1. Tell her often
Don’t wait until she seems upset, or if she expresses a wavering self-esteem, surprise her with compliments. Be generous with your praise and do so often.
2. Stare at her and make sure she notices
If she catches you looking at her, then she’ll feel desired. Love is in the little details and if she feels seen and appreciated, it’ll truly build her self-esteem.
3. Never, ever compare her with other women
Don’t point out what you want to change. Chances are, there are a lot of physical aspects she’d like to change about you, too. But the point is not dwelling on what you’d change, but celebrating what you wouldn’t want to.
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4. Don’t fantasize about other women
Seeing you view pornography or sexy photos of other women can truly hurt her. Having celebrity crushes are fine, but make sure she knows that this isn’t your sole standard of beauty and that they can’t compare with how beautiful you find her.
5. Carry her photo with you
You can display a printout in your wallet or use her photo as your cellphone’s wallpaper; the important thing is, she knows that you cherish her photo so much that you have to carry it around with you all day.
6. Praise her in front of others
Don’t be stingy with your compliments, especially when in front of your kids, friends, and relatives. Building her up can truly make her feel beautiful!
7. Pamper her when she least expects it
Give her gifts or treat her at unexpected times. Show her you love her enough to go out of your way to spoil her once in a while. Letting her know how grateful you are for all she does will make her feel truly valued.
Don’t let the romance die, but woo her as if you’ve only started dating.
8. Show her you want to be the best for her
Take care of yourself. Care for your body and health. This will show her that you believe she deserves the best version of yourself!
How do you make your wives feel beautiful, dads? Let us know in the comments below!
sources: AllProDad.com, Men’s Health, Family Share, Times Online
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