Not all conceptions are a blessing. To some – even experienced mothers – it may be an obstacle; a challenge; a let-down. We're all well aware of that priceless bond towards our child. We love our kids to bits and would do anything for their warm embrace. But what if "the accident" happens? How do we draw the line and tell our husbands, "3 is enough?" What if the only option is to keep it a secret?