When it comes to family planning, it’s often Mom who takes the lead. After all, she’s the one who carries the baby, goes through childbirth, and handles the heavy lifting when it comes to caring for the little ones. But what about Dad? It’s about time that Dads take a step forward and share the responsibility, and one great way to do that is by considering vasectomy.
In light of Drew Arellano’s recent decision to undergo a vasectomy, it’s the perfect opportunity to open up the conversation on this often misunderstood procedure. Let’s take a closer look at what vasectomy is, the misconceptions surrounding it, and why more Dads should consider this as a form of responsible family planning.
What Is a Vasectomy and How Is It Done?
A vasectomy is a minor surgical procedure that involves cutting or blocking the vas deferens — the tube that carries sperm. By doing this, sperm is prevented from mixing with semen and being ejaculated during intercourse. The result? No sperm in the semen = no pregnancy.
How is it performed?
-
The procedure typically takes around 15 to 30 minutes.
-
It’s done under local anesthesia, so you’ll be awake but won’t feel any pain.
-
In the Philippines, many clinics use the non-scalpel method for vasectomy, which is less painful and results in a quicker recovery time.
-
After the procedure, you can go home and rest, and the recovery process usually takes just a few days.
It’s safe, effective, and permanent. But don’t worry — it won’t affect your sex life in the ways some might fear.
Busting the Myths: Common Misconceptions About Vasectomy
There’s a lot of misinformation about vasectomy, and these myths often scare men away from making an informed decision. Let’s bust the top misconceptions:
Myth #1: “Masakit sobra!”
🚫 Busted: While it’s a surgical procedure, many men report only mild discomfort during and after the procedure. The non-scalpel method used by most clinics minimizes pain and speeds up recovery. It’s nothing compared to the pain of tooth extraction!
Myth #2: “Hindi na ako lalabasan.”
🚫 Busted: You will still ejaculate as usual. The only difference is that your semen will no longer contain sperm. Your sex drive and ability to experience orgasm will remain exactly the same.
Myth #3: “Wala na akong gana sa sex.”
🚫 Busted: Not true! Vasectomy does not affect your libido or your ability to enjoy sex. In fact, many couples feel more relaxed after the procedure because they no longer have to worry about unplanned pregnancies.
Myth #4: “Maapektuhan ang orgasm.”
🚫 Busted: The sensation of orgasm will not change. You’ll still feel the same pleasure during intimacy.
Myth #5: “Hindi na ako magiging ‘lalaki.’”
🚫 Busted: Vasectomy has no impact on your testosterone levels or your masculinity. You will still be the same man, both physically and emotionally. It’s about family planning — not about changing your identity.
Myth #6: “Hindi na puwedeng i-reverse.”
🚫 Busted: While vasectomy is considered a permanent form of contraception, it can be reversed through surgery if you change your mind. However, the reversal procedure is not always successful, and it’s expensive, so it’s important to be certain about your decision.
Why Should Dads Consider Vasectomy?
If you’re a father and your family is complete, vasectomy might be a great option for you. It’s a one-time procedure that can effectively prevent pregnancy without the need for ongoing contraception. Here’s why more Dads should consider this procedure:
1. Shared Responsibility
Family planning shouldn’t be solely a woman’s job. By getting a vasectomy, you’re stepping up as a partner in responsible parenting and taking equal ownership of family planning. This decision helps share the burden of preventing pregnancies, giving both parents a break from constantly worrying about birth control methods.
2. It’s Safe and Effective
Vasectomy is a 99.8% effective way to prevent pregnancy. Once done, you don’t have to worry about taking pills, using condoms, or getting IUDs. It’s a long-term solution that doesn’t require constant attention.
3. A Simple, Quick Procedure
The vasectomy procedure is done in a short amount of time, with minimal discomfort. Recovery usually takes a few days, and you can resume most normal activities after a short rest. It’s a low-risk procedure with a high success rate.
Risks to Consider
Before going ahead with a vasectomy, it’s important to understand the potential risks involved:
1. Infection
As with any surgical procedure, there’s a small risk of infection. However, this is rare and can typically be treated with antibiotics if it occurs.
2. Post-surgical pain
Mild discomfort or swelling may occur, but this typically resolves within a few days.
3. Sperm Granuloma
A rare condition where sperm cells form lumps. While it may sound concerning, it’s usually not serious and can be treated.
4. Failed procedure
Though rare, the procedure may fail, which is why it’s important to follow up with your doctor for post-op tests to confirm that it’s working.
Where to Get a Vasectomy in the Philippines?
If you’re considering vasectomy, it’s important to know where to go for the procedure. Here are some options:
1. Public Health Centers
The Philippine government offers free vasectomy services in many local health centers. These services are part of the country’s family planning program, making it an affordable option for many fathers.
2. Specialized Clinics
Private hospitals and clinics like PGH, St. Luke’s, and other well-known institutions also offer vasectomy services. Be sure to consult with a licensed urologist who specializes in the procedure.
3. Commission on Population and Development (POPCOM)
POPCOM promotes family planning services, including vasectomy, in accredited health centers across the country. They provide information and guidance on the procedure.
Is Vasectomy Right for You?
Vasectomy is a safe, effective, and responsible way to help manage family planning. By making this decision, you’re not just helping yourself — you’re also contributing to a healthier, happier, and more equal relationship with your partner. As Drew Arellano has shown, it’s okay to embrace this step towards responsible fatherhood and make family planning a shared responsibility.
Remember, if you’re thinking about vasectomy, consult with a healthcare professional to get all the facts and understand the procedure. It’s a big decision, but with the right information, you can make an informed choice for your family’s future.
May katanungan tungkol sa pagpapalaki ng anak? Basahin ang mga artikulo o magtanong sa kapwa magulang sa aming app. I-download ang theAsianparent Community sa iOS o Android!
