Isang babae ang nag-post sa isang social media site patungkol sa relasyon niya sa kaniyang biyenan at ang pakikitungo nito sa kaniya. May suspetsiya kasi siya na tila ba nakikipagkumpetensiya ito sa kaniya.
Mababasa sa artikulong ito:
- Relasyon sa biyenan
- Kwento ng babae patungkol sa kaniyang biyenan
- Pananaw ng ibang tao tungkol sa kaniyang karanasan
Nakaka-excite talaga kapag ibabahagi mo na sa mga malalapit na tao sa iyong buhay ang iyong pagbubuntis. Pero paano na lamang kung sa oras na ibabalita mo ito sa iyong immediate family at sa publiko, ay isang malapit sa iyo’y nalamang din buntis siya?
Maaari itong maging magandang bonding experience kung kasabay mong magbubuntis ang iyong best friend o kapatid. Subalit paano kung ang kasabay mong magbubuntis ay iyong biyenan o mother-in-law?
Ibinahagi nga ng isang babae sa Reddit ang kaniyang bizzare announced kasabay ng mas weird apology.
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Surprise pregnancy announcement
Sa kwento ng babae sinabi niya na, “We originally wanted to wait to have children until we were both more stable.” Laking gulat umano nila ng kaniyang asawa nang mailman na nagdadalang-tao siya, mas halo pa nilang ikinagulat nang malaman nilang silly magkakaroon ng twins.
Ipinaliwanag ng babe na nasa early twenties na sila ng chaining asawa. Kahit umano maganda ang timing ng kaniyang pagbubuntis ay masaya pa rin sila at magkakaroon pa nga sila ng kambal.
Ninais muna nilang maging tahimik sa balita, pero hindi umano ito nangyari.
“DH (darling husband) let it slip in late July to FIL (father-in-law), who told MIL (mother-in-law), who told the whole world,” aniya. Dagdag pa niya, “By the time I knew everyone back in DH’s small home town knew we were expecting.”
Sa pagkukuwento pa niya, “Now here is where I think I might be crazy,”
“Please tell me if this is a coincidence or if this is a sick grab for attention and control?”
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Pangatlong baby ang paparating!
Nang na-announce niya na ang kaniyang pagbubuntis, at nagkaroon sila ng get together ng kanilang pamilya via zoom. Para ipagdiwang ang birthday ng kanilang great-grandmother. Dahil fresh pa ang balita, nagkaroon ng pagkakataon ang lahat na magtanong patungkol sa kaniyang pagbubuntis. Pero ang kaniyang biyenan ay tila bothered sa tuwing may nagbi-bring up ng pregnancy at baby names.
“So then when GMIL was opening presents MIL announced she had GMIL’s present and wanted to show everyone,” sari niya.
“It was a positive pregnancy test.”
Nagkaroon ng confusion, dahil nga 41 years old na ang kaniyang biyenan na mayroon nang matatandang anak.
“She proceeded to say it was an ‘oopsie baby’ and she wanted this since the house was so empty now and DH and I were so far away she wouldn’t really get to enjoy being a grandmother,” ayon pa sa pagkukuwento ng babae.
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Pagkatapos umano ng zoom party, ang kaniyang biyenan ay nag send ng apology message sa Facebook para umano sa “pag-steal ng moment”.
“I don’t even know what to do, I wasn’t having a moment,” the woman wrote, “it was GMIL’s birthday, and now this bitch is blowing up social media with pregnancy announcements and baby registry links.”
Tinanong pa niya kung ang kaniyang biyenan o mother-in-law ay intention tagalong magbuntis matapos niyang malaman na sila’y magkakaanak ng kaniyang anak.
May posibilidad ito
Maraming mga tao ang nag-point out na hindi naman ito ang unang beses na nangyari ang ganitong pangyayari. Marami talaga ang may hindi magandang relasyon sa biyenan. Kaya naman maaaring may posibilidad ngang totoo ang kaniyang suspetsiya.
Ayon sa isang nag-comment, “Yeah she did (get pregnant intentionally),” knew pa ng babe.
“My sister-in-law did the same thing when her sister and I were both pregnant. She wanted the spotlight on her, so at 17, she stopped taking birth control without telling my brother in law. She got pregnant and my niece was born just a couple of months after she turned 18.”
May isa pang nag-comment na, “I mean it’s totally possible either way. It’d even possible it was planned without you in mind. I hope it was either unplanned or she planned it for her own enjoyment of wanting another kid. Because if she didn’t that is the dumbest spiteful thing to do and I fear for that kid.”
May iba naming tao na nag-suggest na maaaring maging mabuti itong pangyayari.
“My mom and I got pregnant around the same time,” sabi ng sang nag-comment. Dagdag pa niya, “”I’d say just watch her and the future to get a better grasp on it. Who knows maybe it could be a bonding moment! Now if she did do it on purpose then ya that is super odd and weird.”
This article was first published in KidSpot and republished on theAsianparent with permission.
Translated with permission from theAsianparent Singapore
Translated in Filipino by Marhiel Garrote