X
theAsianparent Philippines Logo
theAsianparent Philippines Logo
EnglishFilipino
Product GuideSign in
  • Building a BakuNation
  • Becoming a Parent
    • Trying to Conceive
    • Pregnancy
    • Delivery
    • Losing a Baby
    • Project Sidekicks
  • Ages & Stages
    • Baby
    • Toddler Years
    • Preschool Age
    • Kids
    • Preteen & Teen
  • Parenting
    • Parent's Guide
    • News
    • Relationship & Sex
  • Health & Wellness
    • Diseases & Injuries
    • Allergies & Conditions
    • Vaccinations
  • Education
    • Preschool
    • K-12
    • Special Education Needs
  • Lifestyle Section
    • Celebrities
    • Contests & Promotions
    • Home
    • Travel and Leisure
    • Fashion
    • Fitness
    • Wellness
    • Money
  • Become a VIP
  • COVID-19
  • Press Room
  • TAP Recommends
  • Shopping
  • Awards
    • Parents' Choice Awards 2023

4 Secret methods to stop your kids from whining

3 min read

Whining is essential to parenting; one cannot be a parent without being subjected to the sounds of children whining, often times for hours on end.

This behavior evokes certain common (sometimes understandable) reaction in parents. Some explode ager, while some downright ignore their children altogether.

According to Ben Luthi’s Family Share article, however, it is important to understand that there are things “parents can do to prevent whining in the first place, and most of them involve teaching children by example to communicate.”

1. Teach them how to be responsible

4 Secret Methods to Stop Whining Kids

The earlier they learn it, the better your child will be, now and in the future as adults. For example, children know that playtime is loads more fun than homework, so parents need to make clear to their children how the latter will help them in life.

“If a child begins to whine about why he or she has to do chores, instead of growling ‘Because I said so,’” says Ben, “parents should take a moment to help the child understand that it is important for everyone in the family to contribute.”

2. Stop giving in to their every whim

“Children who are used to getting everything they want usually have a hard time understanding when a parent suddenly says no, causing them to whine in an attempt to get their way.”

Parents need to manage their children’s expectations, make them be grateful for what they have, instill in them the principle that “better” doesn’t necessarily mean “more.”

3. Give them attention

4 Secret Methods to Stop Whining Kids

Whining stems from parents’ lack of attention towards their children’s needs. It is therefore necessary for parents to really understand what their children are trying to communicate to them. They should not be treated as a nuisance.

“Parents should be sure to also give their kids their undivided attention at times when they aren’t in crisis mode, otherwise children will come to realize that the only way to get the attention they want is to throw a fit.”

4. Be fair

“Instead of expecting children to do all household chores, parents should work alongside them,” said Ben. “In addition to making their children apologize when they are rude or dishonest, parents should do the same when they mess up.”

The same goes when it comes to discipline. Make sure that the punishment fits the crime: if a child vandalizes the living room, grounding them from writing and drawing material makes for a better disciplinary action than taking away television rights.

“In all things, it’s important to remember that discipline is meant to help a child improve, not to make a child pay.”

If you have any insights, questions or comments regarding the topic, please share them in our Comment box below. Like us on Facebook and follow us on Google+ to stay up-to-date on the latest from theAsianparent.com Philippines!

Partner Stories
Parents, here's what you should do when your child sees you and your spouse fighting
Parents, here's what you should do when your child sees you and your spouse fighting
#SendLoveWithBebeBata
#SendLoveWithBebeBata
3 Game Changing Baby Products that’s Now Available
3 Game Changing Baby Products that’s Now Available
13 Must-haves for Your Online Baby Checkout Checklist
13 Must-haves for Your Online Baby Checkout Checklist

Got a parenting concern? Read articles or ask away and get instant answers on our app. Download theAsianparent Community on iOS or Android now!

img
Written by

James Martinez

Become a Contributor

  • Home
  • /
  • Parenting
  • /
  • 4 Secret methods to stop your kids from whining
Share:
  • Newborn Guide: 10 things you need to know about Cradle Cap

    Newborn Guide: 10 things you need to know about Cradle Cap

  • 20 common signs that your husband is cheating and the effects of cheating in a relationship

    20 common signs that your husband is cheating and the effects of cheating in a relationship

  • 2-days monthly menstrual leave filed by women’s party-list in the House

    2-days monthly menstrual leave filed by women’s party-list in the House

  • Newborn Guide: 10 things you need to know about Cradle Cap

    Newborn Guide: 10 things you need to know about Cradle Cap

  • 20 common signs that your husband is cheating and the effects of cheating in a relationship

    20 common signs that your husband is cheating and the effects of cheating in a relationship

  • 2-days monthly menstrual leave filed by women’s party-list in the House

    2-days monthly menstrual leave filed by women’s party-list in the House

Get advice on your pregnancy and growing baby. Sign up for our newsletter
  • Pregnancy
    • Baby
    • Breastfeeding & Formula
    • Baby Names
    • Delivery
  • Parenting
    • Parent's Guide
    • Advice for Parenting Kids
    • Relationship & Sex
  • Lifestyle Section
    • Local celebs
    • Celebrities
    • Money
    • News
  • FAMILY & HOME
    • Couples
    • Weekend & Holiday Guide
    • Health
  • Building a BakuNation
    • More
      • TAP Community
      • Advertise With Us
      • Contact Us
      • Become a Contributor


    • Singapore flag Singapore
    • Thailand flag Thailand
    • Indonesia flag Indonesia
    • Philippines flag Philippines
    • Malaysia flag Malaysia
    • Sri-Lanka flag Sri Lanka
    • India flag India
    • Vietnam flag Vietnam
    • Australia flag Australia
    • Japan flag Japan
    • Nigeria flag Nigeria
    • Kenya flag Kenya
    © Copyright theAsianparent 2023. All rights reserved
    About Us|Team|Privacy Policy|Terms of Use |Sitemap HTML
    • Tools
    • Articles
    • Feed
    • Poll

    We use cookies to ensure you get the best experience. Learn MoreOk, Got it

    We use cookies to ensure you get the best experience. Learn MoreOk, Got it

    theAsianparent heart icon
    Nais naming magpadala ng notification sa'yo tungkol sa latest news at update sa pag-aalaga ng baby at kanilang kalusugan.