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Wala Na Ba Talagang Consistent Na Tatay? Ang Totoo Ay Mayroon Pa Rin!

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Wala Na Ba Talagang Consistent Na Tatay? Ang Totoo Ay Mayroon Pa Rin!

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Mayroon pa bang asawa na nagbibigay ng buong sweldo kay misis? Gumagawa ng gawaing bahay kahit siya pa ang bread winner or major provider ng pamilya? Nanatiling gentleman at nililigawan pa rin si Misis?

Oo naman po, mga inay! Si tatay Gelo namin ay marami rin naman talagang shortcomings tulad ng isang padre de pamilya. Maraming imperfections at mga qualities na patuloy at pinag-susumikapang ma-improve para sa amin at sa kanyang sarili.

Ngunit hindi matatawaran ang patuloy na yumayabong na consistency nya bilang ama sa aming anak. Kung minsan bilang ilaw ng tahanan ay nagkakaroon na ako ng kaunting inggit sa binibigay nyang pag-alalaga at pagmamahal sa aming anak hindi po selos, ngunit yoong thinking na dapat ako rin.

Dapat punuin ko rin ng pagmamahal at pag-aaruga si Zab, yung baby namin. Kahit busy at nasa work, from time to time ang check niya kay Zab at pati na rin sa akin.

 

Pagod galing work ngunit may oras pa rin siya sa play time at kumustahin ang school time ni Zab.

Nag-uumapaw palagi ang kaniyang pagmamahal sa amin na kaya naman parang gusto ko rin ibigay ang lahat ng aking makakaya para sa kanilang dalawa.

Married life and parenting: Yes, from the very beginning of our married life, my husband has been very consistent. From when I got pregnant until my delivery and up to now, he has been a hands-on tatay to Zab despite his full-time job.

He is always involved and makes the most of his time to be on our side. Whenever Zab is latching, on special occasions, birthdays, all Zab’s firsts, schooling, and other extra activities, my husband makes sure his presence is there.

Household chores: House chores, although we have a clear agreement when it comes to house rules and house chores I will not sugarcoat you, mga mommies. We also have petty quarrels about dito! Kasi naman hindi lang anak ko ang makalat pati sya at ako na rin.

One of our problems ay kami rin talagang mag-anak ang makalat. Tapos lilinisin namin. But why tatay is very consistent pa din kahit inaaway ko sya dito.

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Guilty ako mas malinis at napakapulido ni tatay Gelo mag-linis. Simula ng makilala ko sya hanggang ngayoon may anak na kami hands-up ako kapag sya ang nag-linis ng bahay at kusina.

Ganoon din po sa pag-luluto. At hanggang ngayoon pag nakikita ko syang nag-kukumpuni ng mga nasira tubo sa lababo o gripo. I make kilig hehehe crush na crush ko ulit sya beshie.

Financial aspect: Sobrang hinhangaan ko ang asawa ko dito. He make sure na maprovide nya lahat ng need namin at ako bilang asawa kapag alam nya kukulangin he makes extra income talaga. At very supportive din sa akin mga hustle sa buhay.

Minsan tayong mga inay na-sstressed hindi dahil sa mga gawaing bahay. Kundi sa mga unful-filled dreams natin. And because of the grace of God he gave me a supportive and consistent husband to support all my endeavors.

Compliments: Lastly, he never fails me to compliments everyday. Ito talaga yun kahit marami rin kaming qualities na ikinaiinis sa isat-isa at kung minsan gusto na namin isuli ang isat-isa sa aming mga parents, at the end of the day when he compliments me, everything is okay.

“Ang ganda mo inay, thank you sa masarap mong luto!” Whispering, “You’re so sexy.” Kahit parang hindi naman!”

Improving ka inay keep it up. Lahat ng inis mo pagod mo at hanash sa mag-hapon. Nawawala at nagiging grateful ka na lang.

Hai parang gusto kong yakapin ang asawa at anak ko today ah, namiss ko sila habang sinusulat ko ito. Andito lang naman sila sa bahay.

Alam nyo po mga inay, wala naman talagang perfect at happy all the time sa buhay mag-asawa at buhay pamilya. Naka design ang mga stress at obstacles sa ating buhay.

Kasi sangkap po ito para mag-karoon tayo ng isang matibay na ralationship hindi sayong sarili kundi doon sa itaas kay Lord at sa ating pamilya. Pag-katapos natin ma-acknowledge ang mga problema at nararamdaman natin.

Patuloy natin piliin at tinggnan ang mga magagandang qualities ng ating mga asawa natin at compliment ang mga efforts nila.

Diba sabi sa manual of life “God said, It is not good that a man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him.” at tayo blang mga asawa babae po yoon. Kaya the consistency of a husband is not him alone but we, as a wife are part of it.

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