How do I help my 35-year-old husband who suffers from premature ejaculation?
This is a common question that a lot of women have, but are either too afraid or to embarrassed to ask. However, as sex is an important part of any relationship, topics like these should be talked about as it affects the both of you, and not just your husband.
However, it’s important to discuss it with your husband in a sensitive way, as you don’t want them to feel that they’re “underperforming” or they’re unable to satisfy you in bed. The important thing is to make your husband feel comfortable, and make him feel that you’re trying to help him.
It can be due to a number of different factors
Oftentimes, premature ejaculation can be caused by psychological factors such as anxiety, or stress. Your husband might be aware that they’re ejaculating prematurely, and it causes them even more anxiety, which can lead to even more problems in bed.
The first thing to do would be to talk it out with your husband and try to figure out if you can fix it by yourselves. You can try mixing things up by making foreplay exciting, or you can also use toys to mix things up.
Sometimes, you just need to spend more time with each other, not necessarily having sex, but just trying to reconnect and being romantic. Try to bring back the fire in your relationship!
Don’t be afraid to seek professional help
Sometimes, premature ejaculation can be an actual medical concern. Which is why you and your husband should not be afraid to seek professional help.
Doctors should be able to better help you figure out what you as a couple can do, or if your husband might need some sort of therapy or medicine to help him out.
Just be sure that you’re patient, understanding, and most of all, sensitive to your husband when it comes to these types of concerns.
Sources: parenttown.com, webmd.com, mirror.co.uk
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