As parents, we’re always on the lookout for stories that not only entertain our children but also impart valuable life lessons. One such gem that has captured the hearts of many is “When an Elephant Hears NO” by Dazzle Ng. This captivating children’s book goes beyond the ordinary to explore themes of empowerment and resilience in a way that resonates deeply with young readers. Let’s take a closer look at the wisdom contained within its pages and how it can empower your child.
Dazzle Ng empowers children by teaching them different meanings of “NO”
Image by Dazzle Ng
In an article written by Pau Miranda of Inquirer, Dazzle Ng shares her inspiration in writing the book “When an Elephant Hears NO.” It is a finely crafted children’s picture book that guides both children and their adult readers. Through the diverse interpretations and contexts of the word NO.
“I realized how many quick and unexplained NOs kids get in a day and how some of those can understandably lead to a tantrum…An elephant flaring its ears, stomping around, shooting out angry sounds with its trunk… had the makings of a giant tantrum. And it would all come from a tiny word: NO,” shared Dazzle Ng.
This story has a multitude of scenes and encounters that resonate with familiarity. It illustrates how “no” can be perceived as “not yet,” or “wait, please,” or convey shock, fear, or concern. These scenes are eloquently expressed, transitioning smoothly from one “no” to another, interwoven with explanations of the reasons behind these responses.
Additionally, the most important lesson conveyed by this story is the significance of using “no” as a means of expressing consent, and the “no” that signifies a desire for something greater.
When an Elephant Hears No: A story of drawing boundaries and expressing consent
Image by Dazzle Ng
At the heart of “When an Elephant Hears NO” is the story of a young elephant on a journey of self-discovery. Through her adventures, children are invited to explore the challenges of asserting themselves. And standing up for what they believe in. The whimsical character serves as a relatable guide, offering valuable insights into navigating the complexities of growing up.
One of the most profound messages of the book is the power of “NO.” In a world where children are often taught to comply without question, Ng challenges this notion by presenting “NO” as a boundary that should be respected and acknowledged.
Through the elephant’s experiences, children learn that it’s okay to say “NO”. When something doesn’t feel right, and that doing so is an act of strength, not weakness.
The colorful illustrations made by Portuguese illustrator Estrela Lourenço are not just visually stunning. But also serve to bring the character’s world to life in vivid detail. From the lush landscapes to the endearing characters. Each page invites children to immerse themselves fully in the magic of the story, making it an engaging and memorable reading experience.
Image by Dazzle Ng
Beyond its entertainment value, “When an Elephant Hears NO” serves as a valuable tool for starting important conversations with your child about consent and boundaries. By presenting these concepts in a relatable and accessible manner. Ng empowers children to advocate for themselves and others, laying the foundation for healthy relationships and self-esteem.
As parents, we know how important it is to instill values of empowerment and resilience in our children from a young age. “When an Elephant Hears NO” offers a wonderful opportunity to do just that. Providing a gentle yet powerful reminder that our children have the inner strength to overcome any obstacle that comes their way.
“When an Elephant Hears NO” by Dazzle Ng is more than just a children’s book. It’s a journey of self-discovery and empowerment that will resonate with both you and your child. Through its endearing characters and timeless wisdom. It offers a valuable resource for nurturing your child’s confidence and resilience. In a world that often tells them to conform. So why not embark on this magical adventure with your child today?
