15 Things husbands should never say to their wives

Husbands, if you've ever said any of these things to your wife, you've got a lot to learn!

Whether you've made the mistake of uttering any of these regrettable sentences to your wife, or you're finding new ways to walk on eggshells, you're going to want to check out our list.

Read up on how to keep your wife happy, and your head on your shoulders, guys!

"You're not that old"

If you've ever said this to your wife, then I'd first like to congratulate you on surviving. Next, I'd like to remind you to never say it again.

Women are pretty sensitive when it comes to aging and you don't need to perpetuate any of their insecurities!

"It's up to you..."

It might seem like your wife is indecisive sometimes, but she's really just looking for you to make a decision.

When it comes to the smaller things in life, make a decision! Wives don't want to pick a restaurant...that's your job husbands!

Anything to do with your ex-girlfriend

I'm not sure why you'd ever think this is a good idea, but I'll just reassure you: it ISN'T.

Comparing your wife to an ex is a surefire way to spark a fight, jealousy, insecurities, or some questions that you don't want to answer.

"Relax", "Chill out", or "Calm down"

Your wife has earned the right to flip out every now and then. Don't be dismissive and tell her to relax or calm down.

By doing this, you're invalidating her feelings. Lend a listening ear instead and let her cool off that way.

"Are you on your period or something?"

Even if you're correct when asking this, it doesn't give you the right to say it.

If your wife is mad at you or has an attitude, it's probably for a good reason. Try asking her what's wrong and don't just assume that hormones are the root cause.

"I can't stand your family"

How would you like if your wife said she didn't like your parents or siblings? You wouldn't like it, would you?

Maybe you should just keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself and try to resolve the issue any way you can.

"You're starting to remind me of your mother"

A classic example of bad things to say to a woman...especially your wife!

No matter the context, there's a good chance she'll take this in an offensive manner. It's best to avoid this comparison at all costs, husbands!

"Are you really gonna eat all of that?"

Husbands, remember when you first started dating your wife? And how little she ate on your first few dates?

Don't make her feel insecure! She's earned the right to eat as much as she wants, now that you're married. Let her be comfortable with you, and don't call her out for it!

"Stop being so sensitive"

Women don't have the option of just "turning off" their sensitivity. Instead, you should just embrace your wife's sensitivity...and even your own!

Don't be rude and try to ignore her feelings by saying this. In the end, it could hurt her feelings.

"That's what you're gonna wear?"

I'm no fashion expert. I assume you're not either.

Women work very hard to pick out an outfit, and they can certainly do without your criticism and rude comments.

"That's not how my mom does it"

We've talked about how it's a bad idea to compare your wife to her own mother. Well, it's also unwise to compare her to your mother.

Your mom may have handled things differently, but your wife is NOT your mom. Don't compare apples and oranges, husbands.

"Yes, [other woman] is attractive"

No need to open up this can of worms, guys.

Your wife wasn't born yesterday, and she knows that you probably find other women attractive, but she needs to know that she's the apple of your eye at all times.

If she asks if you find someone else pretty...just say no.

"Yes, that dress does make you look fat"

I truly hope you've never said this rude statement. Even as a joke it's not appropriate, or kind.

This is guaranteed to spark insecurities in your wife, and you should always just respond with a quick (and thoughtful) "no".

"Stop nagging me"

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: if your wife is mad, or has an attitude with you, there's probably a good reason.

If she's "nagging" you, there's probably a good reason for that as well. Maybe you should try to please her instead of insisting she's out of line, or being annoying.

"I make more than you"

Husbands, this is demoralizing to hear from anyone. So, imagine how demoralizing it would be for your hard working wife to hear it from you.

Even if it is true, rude and offensive comments like this have no place in a happy marriage!

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