Love is once more in the air. Shop windows have changed their Christmas decorations to Valentines-themed decors. Red has become the dominant colour. And chocolates in heart-shaped boxes are slowly dominating supermarket shelves. There are heart-shaped lollipops, heart cakes, greeting cards with red hearts emblazoned on their covers, and heart balloons.
As Valentine’s Day draws close, the number and variety of gift choices can get confusing. Lovers become more frantic searching for that perfect Valentine’s gift, and more anxious to pull off that unforgettable Valentine’s date.
Sadly, that unforgettable Valentine's date can also turn into a noisy affair as couples rush to their dinner dates in all-too-crowded restaurants. And Valentine's gifts are a dime a dozen.
It’s therefore not a bad idea to stay in. You can have a deliciously intimate dinner with your spouse in the comfort of your own home. And the effort that goes into preparing a meal for that special someone can also communicate more love than a store-bought gift.
The beauty of it is you can even flirt with each other while preparing the meal in your own kitchen.
Preparing the perfect Valentine’s meal
1. Arrange for a baby sitter
Intimacy between married couples is vital, yet it is often overlooked. Parents are always too busy earning a living, keeping house, and taking care of the kids, that they forget to take time for themselves as a couple.
It would be great if you could arrange for a baby sitter or take the kids to your mom’s, your sister’s, or a friend’s house. If arrangements can’t be made, you can also play a movie for the kids to watch, or send them to bed earlier.
2. Set a Beautiful Table
Pay close attention to table setting. Bring out your best linen and cutlery. Make sure your plates aren’t chipped at the edges. Set some flowers. Dim the lights and light some candles. Be creative in setting the mood for a romantic evening.
3. Have Fun in the Kitchen
If you do choose to prepare the meal together, don’t forget to have fun. You can also spice things up with a little flirtation.
Simple, easy meals are ideal. Prepare dishes you are already familiar with or are at least easy to put together. In choosing a recipe, make sure all the ingredients are available in your locality and in season. You don’t have to prepare a five-star restaurant dish to earn your spouse’s appreciation.
You should also be mindful of your spouse’s food preferences and any food allergies. Also consider incorporating ingredients that are known aphrodisiacs, such as avocado and asparagus.
Go easy on that garlic! Garlicky breath is a big turn off. So is overly spicy food. Both ingredients can spell disaster.
6. Keep your Mind on the Date
There is nothing more disappointing than a date who can’t keep his/her mind on the date. A wandering mind can quickly deflate your lover’s mood. Give your partner your undivided attention, and watch the sparks fly!
End the meal with a sweet and sexy treat. Desserts that spell love and passion, such as chocolates and strawberries are magical. Dark chocolate also happens to be an aphrodisiac.
Simple Ideas for your Valentine’s Meal
You can try out this simple and easy three-course meal plan for your Valentine’s date. Each course also happens to contain aphrodisiacs.
