X
theAsianparent Philippines Logo
theAsianparent Philippines Logo
EnglishFilipino
  • Building a BakuNation
  • Becoming a Parent
    • Trying to Conceive
    • Pregnancy
    • Delivery
    • Losing a Baby
    • Project Sidekicks
  • Ages & Stages
    • Baby
    • Toddler Years
    • Preschool Age
    • Kids
    • Preteen & Teen
  • Parenting
    • Parent's Guide
    • News
    • Relationship & Sex
  • Health & Wellness
    • Diseases & Injuries
    • Allergies & Conditions
    • Vaccinations
  • Education
    • Preschool
    • K-12
    • Special Education Needs
  • Lifestyle Section
    • Celebrities
    • Contests & Promotions
    • Home
    • Travel and Leisure
    • Fashion
    • Fitness
    • Wellness
    • Money
  • Become a VIP
  • COVID-19
  • Press Room
  • TAP Recommends
  • Shopping

How can moms and dads deal with having nosy neighbors?

2 min read
How can moms and dads deal with having nosy neighbors?How can moms and dads deal with having nosy neighbors?

Nosy neighbors are something that all families will inevitably have to deal with. So how can moms and dads deal with this problem respectfully?

So, you and your family just moved into your new home, and you've finally settled in. But suddenly, you notice that your neighbors seem to be always talking about you behind your back.

How can moms and dads deal with nosy neighbors without coming off as too rude?

Tips on dealing with nosy neighbors

Regarding gossip, sociologist Gerald Abergos shares, "Kaya ka natsi-tsismis kasi they haven’t seen you in a level na you are a person of higher value."

"There are things that you have to do to show them na you don't deserve that (tsismis), na kagalang-galang ka," he adds.

Here are some useful tips:

  1. Call ahead and schedule a calm talk with your neighbors. Make sure not to instigate a fight, but instead be open and have a mature discussion.
  2. Don't accuse them of spreading rumors, as that can only make things worse.
  3. If they have a habit of snooping on you, why not trying planting a hedge or erecting a fence in order to dissuade them from being too nosy?
  4. Be good neighbors. If you act respectfully and are nice towards everyone else, then your neighbors wouldn't have any reason to snoop on you or spread nasty rumors.
  5. If you don't have a civil relationship with your next-door neighbors, you can try and talk to your other neighbors, ones you have a good relationship with, to act as a mediator.
  6. Do your best to be friendly with them. You might not like all of your neighbors, but you have to understand that you're going to live with them for a long time. So it's still best to try and have a positive relationship with them.
  7. Just ignore them. Sometimes, it's just best to not pay any attention to people spreading nasty things about you. It's always better to focus on the positive things in your life and not spend any time worrying about negativity.

 

Partner Stories
Parents, here's what you should do when your child sees you and your spouse fighting
Parents, here's what you should do when your child sees you and your spouse fighting
3 Game Changing Baby Products that’s Now Available
3 Game Changing Baby Products that’s Now Available
13 Must-haves for Your Online Baby Checkout Checklist
13 Must-haves for Your Online Baby Checkout Checklist
Why Knowing Children’s Current Academic Ability Can Help them Advance in School
Why Knowing Children’s Current Academic Ability Can Help them Advance in School

Source: news.abs-cbn.com

ALSO READ: Is your maid gossiping about your family? Here’s what you can do about it

Got a parenting concern? Read articles or ask away and get instant answers on our app. Download theAsianparent Community on iOS or Android now!

img
Written by

Jan Alwyn Batara

Become a Contributor

  • Home
  • /
  • Parent's Guide
  • /
  • How can moms and dads deal with having nosy neighbors?
Share:
  • How to deal with a meddling mother-in-law during the holidays

    How to deal with a meddling mother-in-law during the holidays

  • Practical money advice from an Ilocano mom

    Practical money advice from an Ilocano mom

  • Experts say these nutrients that are key in baby's brain development

    Experts say these nutrients that are key in baby's brain development

  • REAL STORIES: "41 weeks na, ayaw pa rin lumabas ni baby—lahat na ginawa ko"

    REAL STORIES: "41 weeks na, ayaw pa rin lumabas ni baby—lahat na ginawa ko"

app info
get app banner
  • How to deal with a meddling mother-in-law during the holidays

    How to deal with a meddling mother-in-law during the holidays

  • Practical money advice from an Ilocano mom

    Practical money advice from an Ilocano mom

  • Experts say these nutrients that are key in baby's brain development

    Experts say these nutrients that are key in baby's brain development

  • REAL STORIES: "41 weeks na, ayaw pa rin lumabas ni baby—lahat na ginawa ko"

    REAL STORIES: "41 weeks na, ayaw pa rin lumabas ni baby—lahat na ginawa ko"

Get advice on your pregnancy and growing baby. Sign up for our newsletter
  • Pregnancy
    • Baby
    • Breastfeeding & Formula
    • Baby Names
    • Delivery
  • Parenting
    • Parent's Guide
    • Advice for Parenting Kids
    • Relationship & Sex
  • Lifestyle Section
    • Local celebs
    • Celebrities
    • Money
    • News
  • FAMILY & HOME
    • Couples
    • Weekend & Holiday Guide
    • Health
  • Building a BakuNation
    • More
      • TAP Community
      • Advertise With Us
      • Contact Us
      • Become a Contributor


    • Singapore flag Singapore
    • Thailand flag Thailand
    • Indonesia flag Indonesia
    • Philippines flag Philippines
    • Malaysia flag Malaysia
    • Sri-Lanka flag Sri Lanka
    • India flag India
    • Vietnam flag Vietnam
    • Australia flag Australia
    • Japan flag Japan
    • Nigeria flag Nigeria
    • Kenya flag Kenya
    © Copyright theAsianparent 2022. All rights reserved
    About Us|Team|Privacy Policy|Terms of Use |Sitemap HTML
    • Tools
    • Articles
    • Feed
    • Poll

    We use cookies to ensure you get the best experience. Learn MoreOk, Got it

    We use cookies to ensure you get the best experience. Learn MoreOk, Got it

    theAsianparent heart icon
    Nais naming magpadala ng notification sa'yo tungkol sa latest news at update sa pag-aalaga ng baby at kanilang kalusugan.