He’s not my type. Masyado siyang makulit, babaero, walang sense of direction, pasaway siya sa room namin noon, laging nagka-cut ng klase. I hate him, pero something happened na bigla na lamang kami naging malapit sa isa’t isa. I always cling to him whenever I have to passed by my ex, then he begun calling me his best friend.
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The next thing I know, he’s proposing to court me na!
Along the way, behind those negativity I’ve seen, knowing him deeply changed everything how I looked at him. He’s actually a sweet, caring, family-oriented, madiskarte and business-minded person. Maybe, reasons why I love him. The love blooms year 2005 and now, we already have our family.
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We broke up nth times and had a long distance relationship way back years ago. So, I can say we really had and still having our own rocky and bumpy roads. Our struggles mainly because of different perceptions, beliefs and completely how we have lived our life, but that’s part of our black and whites.
My relationship advice
In relationship, its not just fun times, butterflies and rainbows. You have to embrace the imperfection, and grey sides, that’s how you both grow, you always have to make caution and learn each others love language. Of course, you both have to keep your communication open, to be understanding, more patient and honest.
Kahit magasawa na always keep the bond, plan together. Share each others burdens and strengths para kayong dalawa rin ang magka-agapay until the end and make God the center.
Kailangan alagaan pa rin ‘yun relationship, kasi iyan ‘yung puno ng mga bunga. If you let that die, your family as well.
Kaya naman this is my relationship advice. For me, to keep a love stood still, always think about what makes you together not what makes you separate.
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