Marital tips? I got you covered!
On the hot topic that’s trending lately about celebrities – king and queen of their network, being involved in infidelity. A lot of women commented that, “Ang ganda na raw ng asawa, or ang sexy na ni misis or ang dami na nilang anak. Bakit pa nagawa ni mister inyon?”
But to tell you frankly, when the lust takes over the mind, your beauty, your waistline, or your bigger-sized boobs nor the number of your children will no longer be an assurance nor security for you to say that your husband will not cheat.
And to men, your handsome looks, dick’s size nor the car you are driving is not an assurance too. A person cheats because they’re a cheater, and no other reason.
So, ano pong gagawin? Honestly, I don’t know too. All I know is that I cling on to love and faith.
Love
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I love my husband even when I am so pissed off and so mad at him and I love him more when he is the best.
Faith
I hold on to God and my faith in Him that He will sway my husband away from temptations. That He had blessed our marriage and will help us in making our marriage grow.
Also, during those times that I am in trouble, I hold on to Him to shed some lights. I also have my faith in my husband that he will not cheat on me. For me, that his love for me and for our family is bigger than the lust he will feel for somebody.
Marital tips
Every time we have misunderstandings and me hating him, I would always recall those years that we’ve been together. Reminiscing those days that we are so in love and recall why I loved him that much.
After that the hate and sadness that I feel whenever we have arguments will slowly fade away. Of course, we always try to make our relationship be the better version. We always grow together with every circumstances and misunderstandings that we faced.
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“There is no perfect marriage or relationship, but two people who always try to adjust and grow together will have a successful one.”
Do not forget to make your spouse your best buddy, your bestfriend and barkada at the same time. Because you are partners in life its better to be your husband or wife’s bestfriend. Always try to be the best ever friend for him. Maybe you are his wife or her husband but you definitely his/her bestfriend.
“Always accept his flaw and imperfections as she/he accept yours. Even it means he has a loud fart. Love him/her. Keep an open communication as well.”
Like, I don’t nag at my husband. When I’m mad, I keep quiet but I message him on messenger. We talk it out there, so that our children won’t here or see us fighting. That is one of my marital tips that I can share with you.
Lastly, if there’s something lacking in your relationship instead of finding it somewhere, talk it out with your spouse. Looking for the things your spouse is lacking or finding fault, learn to accept and be contented.
“You are not just people who married each other but people who chose to be together for life so do everything to make it work. You are not perfect and your spouse is not also perfect to have 100% but you can both give you 50-50”
Love is not just a feeling, it consists of hard work and sacrifice – and that hard work and sacrifice will be doubled when you enter into marriage.
Stay in love mommies!
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