Pagpapalaglag ang naisip na solusyon ng isang buntis na netizen sa kaniyang problema matapos lokohin at hindi panindigan ng kaniyang boyfriend for 10 years.
Ang naguguluhang netizen nga na ito ay humingi ng tulong sa aktres na si Karel Marquez sa pamamagitan ng pagsesend ng isang direct message sa Instagram.
Pagkatanggap ng message mula sa hindi pinangalanang netizen ay naalarma at agad na sumagot si Karel at nakiusap na hindi pagpapalaglag ang solusyon sa problema niya.
Sa message ng netizen na pinost ni Karel sa kaniyang Instagram ay kinuwento nito ang kaniyang pinagdadaanan.
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I’m one those who got this message today. You know, no matter how IMPERFECT I am, I have my own voice to share because I can. Maybe because I’ve also been through rock bottom, and also maybe because I face any challenge in my life with such a powerful and strong persona, even though I may look calm and chill. We all have different opinions, but I would gladly share mine. 1, no one wants to fall in love with the wrong people, but sometimes we do, even if it’s too late. Do not regret this, it already happened. What he did to you, the lying alone about so many things, especially about having kids is already a mega red flag. A partner who has kids though (past) doesn’t matter when you fall in love, but hiding about them to you is wrong. Or hiding another affair! It was obvious what he wanted to do. And yes, you are now in pain after all this. Also knowing that you are pregnant now, and he says he wants to abort this. He is a coward. He is stupid. He doesn’t deserve ANY OF YOU (you and your child inside you). It hurts, I know, but please, have this mothersucker out of your life. This is not good. And as for you, PLEASE, I am begging you, I am crying as I type this, do not abort your baby. Please. 6 months na sya. He/she is the best gift you have RIGHT now and you need each other. He/she needs you. Let the baby stay away from that weakling, manloloko, gago who said to abort. Do you have friends/close fam? Find a support system to help you get through. If alone, you will NEED strength from The Lord. Please, stress is a number 1 no no, BUT I KNOW it is easy to say. What you are going through hurts so much, I feel your pain. Please message me anytime, and please be strong. Please be strong for you and your baby. Again, it is hard to say but, please move on starting today (since you already did step 1 anyway by “breaking up” with him). You know what else, PRAY. Pray, pray pray. This really is also the most important part for anything you are going through. The Lord will NEVER let you down. He won’t make you go through this pag alam niyang hindi mo kaya. KAYA MO YAN. It will be painful, but do NOT give up. If I can, if they can, YOU CAN.
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“Hi Ms.Karel. I’m impress in your positivity in life. Sorry but I just need someone to talk to right now cuz Im experiencing something I am 33y/o now and 6months pregnant to my boyfriend for 10 yrs. My relationship to him was up and down ilang beses na din niya akong niloko before i found out that he had a daughter already then after 2 yrs nasundan ng another baby woth same girl. Pinatawad ko sya and I accept he has already kids. He promise to behave and naghiwalay na sila ng mommy ng kids so ako naman naniwala. We had a great time until last year I found out that I was pregnant. At first he was not favor with the baby gusto niya ipalaglag but I stay strong and continue it. Yesterday I google the girl and find out na hindi pa sila hiwalay all the while akala ko they only have 2 kids but what surprise me they already have 4 kids pala.
Sobrang sakit ng nalaman ko ended up splitting up with him a while ago. Im waiting for him to explain his side pero di na sya nagparamdam. Sobrang gulo ng isip ko ngayon Im just praying and praying now but the pain wont go away. Kanina naiisip ko lang na ayoko ng ituloy yung pregnancy ko because ayoko matulad sakin yung anak ko walang kinikilalang father. What will I do? Please advise me. Please.”
Sinagot nga ni Karel sa pamamagitan ng isang Instagram post ang message na kung saan sinabi niya na.
“I’m one those who got this message today. You know, no matter how IMPERFECT I am, I have my own voice to share because I can. Maybe because I’ve also been through rock bottom, and also maybe because I face any challenge in my life with such a powerful and strong persona, even though I may look calm and chill.
We all have different opinions, but I would gladly share mine. 1, no one wants to fall in love with the wrong people, but sometimes we do, even if it’s too late. Do not regret this, it already happened. What he did to you, the lying alone about so many things, especially about having kids is already a mega red flag.
A partner who has kids though (past) doesn’t matter when you fall in love, but hiding about them to you is wrong. Or hiding another affair! It was obvious what he wanted to do. And yes, you are now in pain after all this. Also knowing that you are pregnant now, and he says he wants to abort this. He is a coward. He is stupid. He doesn’t deserve ANY OF YOU (you and your child inside you). It hurts, I know, but please, have this mothersucker out of your life. This is not good.
And as for you, PLEASE, I am begging you, I am crying as I type this, do not abort your baby. Please. 6 months na sya. He/she is the best gift you have RIGHT now and you need each other. He/she needs you. Let the baby stay away from that weakling, manloloko, gago who said to abort. Do you have friends/close fam? Find a support system to help you get through. If alone, you will NEED strength from The Lord. Please, stress is a number 1 no no, BUT I KNOW it is easy to say. What you are going through hurts so much, I feel your pain. Please message me anytime, and please be strong. Please be strong for you and your baby. Again, it is hard to say but, please move on starting today (since you already did step 1 anyway by “breaking up” with him). You know what else, PRAY. Pray, pray pray. This really is also the most important part for anything you are going through. The Lord will NEVER let you down. He won’t make you go through this pag alam niyang hindi mo kaya. KAYA MO YAN. It will be painful, but do NOT give up. If I can, if they can, YOU CAN.”
Maliban nga kay Karel ay nagbigay din ng payo at encouraging comments ang iba pang netizens na nakabasa sa sitwasyon ng naguguluhang pregnant netizen na nag-iisip ng pagpapalaglag. Ipinagdiinan nga nila na hindi pagpapalaglag ang dapat gawin kundi mahalin ang kaniyang baby na magiging dahilan at source ng happiness para makalimot sa sakit at lungkot na kaniyang nararanasan.
Image screenshot from Karel Marquez Instagram account
Image screenshot from Karel Marquez Instagram account
Image screenshot from Karel Marquez Instagram account
Pinuri rin ng mga netizens ang mabilis na pagtugon ni Karel Marquez sa nakakabahalang kalagayan ng anonymous na letter sender na nag-iisip ng pagpapalaglag. Ikinatuwa rin nila ang positivity ni Karel na kamakailan lang ay nag-announce na siya ay buntis sa kaniyang rainbow baby sa asawang si Sean Fariñas.
Noong 2017 ay nakunan si Karel sa una nilang baby ni Sean na sinabi niyang isang kaso ng chemical pregnancy.
Sa ngayon ay 14 weeks pregnant at excited si Karel sa kaniyang pagbubuntis bagamat nakakaranas ng hirap at sakit. Kaya naman dahil dito ay inidilo at hinangaan ng anonymous netizen ang kaniyang lakas at positivity sa pagharap sa buhay.
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Sources: PEP.ph, Manila Bulletin, PEP.ph
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