How to discipline toddlers using the time-out method

Got a naughty child who doesn't listen? Time to send them to time out! Filipino parents, check out how to discipline toddlers using the time-out method!

How to put your child in time out

If you're a new parent or a parent who's been struggling with the concept of time out, then this is definitely for you!

Go through this step-by-step guide on how to properly put your child in time out!

Never lose your temper

If you find that you’re angry or frustrated, give yourself a time-out. Go to your room for a bit. There is nothing wrong with taking a break from your child when you feel stressed out.

Keep time-outs short

Children between ages 3-6 have a short attention span and will find ways to entertain themselves when sent to the corner for a lengthy time-out. For a three-year-old, time-out should be limited to three minutes; for a four-year-old, four minutes and a five-year-old, five minutes.

Get talking

When taking your child to the time-out chair, explain why he or she is in time-out, how long they will be in time out, and that he or she has to wait for the timer to go off before time-out is over.

Here’s an example:You are in time-out because you did not put your toy away. You will be in time-out for five minutes. When the timer goes off, you can get up.

Get a timer

Using a timer will let you and your child know when time-out is over. Most microwaves have a timer, but you can also use a stop-watch or an egg timer.

Talk after Time-out

The point of time-out is not only to discipline your child, but to teach your child the importance of talking and listening. When the timer goes off, go to your child and tell him why he received time-out. Ask for an apology, and give a hug and kiss. A hug and a kiss will let your child know that even though he or she made a mistake, you still love and care for your child.

Example:"I gave you time-out because I told you to put your toy away and you did not do it. I would like an apology because you did not listen to me.”

Don’t give time-out all the time

Use a three strike system along with time-out. First, give warning number one. Wait a minute or two before giving the next warning. If your child does not listen, repeat your request and give the second warning. The third warning is giving your child the option of obeying you or getting a time-out. If still no luck, go ahead with time out.

Here’s what that looks like: 1) Can you put your car away? 2) Please put your car away or you will get a five minute time-out. 3) Put the car away now or get time-out.

How to put your child in time out

Parents, using time-out well takes practice and lots of patience. Remember that there is no such thing as a perfect child, but you can teach your child how to behave well.

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